God and Sexual Assault

The Reason for the Season

Do you know Jesus?

Tomorrow is Christmas, and depending on your circumstance, the holidays may be hard. I know they are hard for me as I have no one to be with and the loneliness of days spent alone is magnified during holidays.

The world tells us the holidays are for family, and yet sometimes it’s our families who are toxic to us. So, to put things in perspective we have to look deeper than what the world tells us. Christmas didn’t come about to give gifts or sit on Santa’s lap or even spend time with family.

The whole meaning of Christmas is that Jesus was born as a baby in manger one night 2000 years ago in Bethlehem. He came as a human in the flesh.

He has walked and lived on this earth with all the evil it entails. Yet, He is also God. He saw all the evil and our sin and chose to give His life for ours.

I would not be able to make it on this journey in recovery without depending on Him. It’s His strength that gets me through.

There have been times along the way I didn’t call on Him for help and when I tried it on my own I came close to death. That is not what He wants for us. He has plans for our lives that we cannot begin to imagine.

So, on this Christmas, if you don’t know Jesus, what better time to turn to Him than on His birthday? All you have to do is reach out and He is there.

He never leaves us once we call on Him. I know from our experiences we struggle to trust and understand love, but He can build those in us. I am experiencing it right now.

I don’t believe it’s one fancy prayer that leads You to Jesus, just honest, heartfelt confession that you are a sinner and reaching out to Him. The Bible says:

“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.” For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile—the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Romans 10:9-13

None of us are perfect. We all have sinned and will continue to, but Jesus came to die for those sins so we can spend eternity with Him in heaven.

What do you say today? Reach out to Jesus and begin a relationship with Him if you don’t already have one. He’s waiting with arms open wide to welcome You and He longs to help You on this journey. If you already know Him cherish what He’s done for you.nativity

As we celebrate Christmas let’s remember the real reason we celebrate is Jesus, and when you start to feel down and depressed about being alone remember if you know Him He is always with you.

Wishing you a Merry Christmas!

© 2019 Susan M. Clabaugh. All Rights Reserved.

I am a former elementary school teacher who loves God. I am currently in the process of recovering from a childhood of sexual abuse and assaults. I am pursuing God's will for my life right now which involves following various writing endeavors and working on publishing some books. I feel God has led me to write this for my own healing, and to share with others who have been through the trauma of sexual assault.

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